The title of this painting is "Half-way Home."
The sign posts in the original painting really do read Los Angeles and Chicago.
Pyrzfamily.com has been online for almost a decade. For the first 3
years of its existence, it was little more than a place to dump some
pictures and allow me to fiddle around with my web design "hobby."
The
website took on a new dimension on August 2, 2003. That is the date Sue
and I hit the road with Bingley, for our new life in California. That
new life began in earnest on August 5, 2003, when we arrived at our new
apartment in Beverly Hills, about 2,000 miles away from both of our
families, and not any easy drive or short flight by any stretch of the
imagination. This website then became a sort of window into our little
world out here in California, and for the last 6 years, we have allowed
you all to peek through that window to share our adventures.
On
August 5, 2009, exactly 6 years to the day since our convoy from
Illinois sped down the 15 freeway, out of Las Vegas and into the Mojave
Desert of eastern California, Sue and I made yet another life-changing
decision. After 6 years in Southern California, we would pack it up and
make the return trip. The decision was made to dive, head first and bet
all of our chips. I have no job waiting for me, no place to live other
than with our parents, and only a couple of semi-promising job leads
waiting for me when we get back. For some reason though, it seems like
the only decision that made sense.
I am leaving a job that
I love, and people with whom I thoroughly enjoy working. We are leaving
behind some of the best friends we have ever had. We are leaving an
area with which we have become intimately familiar, to return to an
area that has become increasingly foreign to us over the past 6 years.
6
years may seem a relatively short period of time, however, when you
have packed as much as we have into that span, those 6 years start to
feel like an eternity. As most of you know, we moved our here so that I
could attend law school. That endeavor was three (very) long years in
and of itself. Then, of course, came the bar exam and the longest four
months of my life waiting for the results. That period ended at 6 p.m.
on November 17, 2006; a time and date that will stick with me as one of
the most anticipated moments, and, thankfully, one of the happiest
moments in my life.
Sue wasn't just sitting around doing
nothing during this time, quite the contrary. Sue was taking classes as
a visiting student at Loyola Marymount to complete her master's degree,
and was student teaching in Culver City for the first year we were out
here. After we moved to Orange County, Sue began working at the
hospital where she would later give birth to our greatest
accomplishment since moving to California.
On July 1, 2008,
just about one month shy of the 5th anniversary of our arrival in
California, Elizabeth Darcy Pyrz (Lizzy Bear), was born in Mission
Viejo, California. For years we had been fending off pressure from the
outside, parents, siblings, etc, to move back to Chicago. Little did we
know that with Lizzy's birth, the seeds were sown for an inside job.
As
our Little Bear has grown increasingly aware of her surroundings, I
have become increasingly aware of the childhood of which I would be
depriving her. Remaining in California would keep Lizzy 2,000 miles
away from her grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and the rest of her
family, very few of whom can be found on this side of the Mississippi.
Telephone calls and webcams are nice, but they are no substitute for
being there.
That was the reason I gave my bosses when I
told them that I would be leaving the firm, and they could not have
been more understanding and supportive of my decision. After all, both
of them had left their large-firm jobs to start their own firm, so they
could spend more time with their families. Now, at least for the next
few months, I will be spending a previously unheard of amount of time
with my family, as I voluntarily throw myself into one of the worst job
markets in history. I will not dwell on that aspect though, for now, I
am excited, as is Sue, about turning the page on this chapter of our
lives, and beginning the next.
In exactly one month, we
will be sleeping (hopefully) in our hotel in St. George, Utah, on night
one of our return trip. The rest of that week will have us stopping in
Colorado, Nebraska, and finally Iowa, before speeding down I-80, out of
Iowa City, and into the corn fields of western Illinois. At some point
along the way, we will be half-way home. At least at this time, it is
anyone's guess as to where home really is. In any event,
Pyrzfamily.com, as it has existed for the last six-plus years, will no
longer be necessary.